Goethe famous German philosopher once said «Only the soul that loves is happy», and Victor Hugo believed: «The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved».

Common man usually but wrongly reduce love to personal or to romantic love, forgetting the many other forms it may assume. Man likes to follow his dreams and adventure in what it might be where reality is reshaped to accommodate his values and desires. 

When reality takes over man's dreams usually ends and the imposition bring about an end to his hopes.

since not all love is a game, the true love unfold before man in a way its aesthetic values become apparent to him. 

Where man does not appreciate generosity at heart and any form of devotion to a cause is because these traits have no romantic value in the eye of man and to lesser extent they seem less tangible to him.

Commitment to a man is all about long term attachment to a cause and it usually means about personal relationship where in particular rewards are sexual attraction  and desire.

Since love is a game, in games and places where we admit or exclude friends on the slightest cause, governing idea of love becomes shallow and dishonest, yet very sweet to pundits. 

We all have at some point a fair share of disappointments when we play the game of love and to a degree we become the victim of our own devices. The question remains why those of us who have been let down by smooth operators keep playing the game?

To most of us who play the game, reward is highly valued and we think we learn from our failures and excel at our approaches. we therefore  exercise patience and accept life with all its unanticipated disappointments.

Seeking someone whose personality complements our own is very hard at best of times, particularly where one encounters with different circle of friends. Like any player I have taken the plunge and may I say that I have been very fortunate on  separate occasions to come across outstanding characters who have been the source of caring and compassion.